Friday, February 03, 2006

I keep having dreams that my boyfriend is cheating on me. I don't know why; he never has, and never has done or said anything to make me think he would. Rationally, I can't ever even see him doing it. Yet I keep having these dreams where he does....my ex-boyfriend cheated on me a lot, but that was five years ago, so I don't know if that has anything to do with it or not.

I hate it though, I wake up with this uneasy, awful feeling, for no tangible reason. :(

6 comments:

Anonymous said...

Sounds like a self-esteem problem.

Anonymous said...

He's probably cheating on you. Sorry, but it's true.

Anonymous said...

Every one, and men especially, are going to look... perhaps even flirt a little.

The ones that say they never look lie. The ones that say the look but aren't interested lie. The ones that say they look, and sometimes wonder, but choose not to act on their feelings because they have someone they are devoted to.... they're likely telling the truth.

Do you think about cheating?

Anonymous said...

Maybe to put your mind to rest you should check up on him. The unnannounced stopby or read his email or something. If he's guilty of cheating then your transgression will pale by comparison and no one will be mad at you. The only catch is to keep a clean conscience you have to tell him what you did afterwards (stupid conscience).

Anonymous said...

It's probably your shoes.

Anonymous said...

anymous 11:39 AM, you're a moron, you must be a woman, because you know nothing about men. anonymous 1:42AM, what you say sounds like you have never really trusted someone. How would you feel if your man invaded your privacy? I did that to a woman I loved, and she never forgave me. Even if he doesn't find out, it's still dirty. All you can do is have faith: that he's not cheating, or that he will tell you when he does. Either that, or you could trick him into admitting something. Women are supposed to be good at dirty games like that, right?