He swears that he loves me and wants to marry me someday (although we have yet to make any plans after 1 1/2 years), but I think he's pushing me away subconciously. I know he THINKS he loves me, but he doesn't show as much affection towards me, as I do towards him. I'm always the one who has to initiate sex, always the one who kisses first, always the one to suggest a movie or dinner.
He tells our mutaly freinds that I'm too "quick" in bed and complains I'm not adventurous enough-- which I find ironic.
And the worst of it all is that he is always online chatting away with other guys. He swears he's not hooking up, yet 've caught him attempting to hook up every now and then.
I just wonder if he THINKS he loves me, but actaully is pushing me away. Anyone have any thoughts or advice??
Tuesday, December 05, 2006
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Sounds like he might be gay.
Duh! I just realized that the poster might have been a man. I just assumed when I started reading that it was a girl.
Sorry!
Think about it this way....is this the relationship you want - a boyfriend who's not very affectionate and disses you to his friends? Don't hang onto him just because he says he loves you. If you don't feel loved, move on.
I say committment has very little to do with marriage... you don't need the govenment to say you're committed. You just know.
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